Is life really unfair?

by Anonymous 9:41 PM 1 coments

It may be or it may not be. Depends on your perspective. You have a choice to think of life the way you want. And your thoughts manifest themselves, to bring your realities in congruent(hope the word is good) to them. Your behavior or attitude towards life must be in congruent to your perspectives, which in turn must be in congruent to your beliefs. The important thing to remember, however, is, despite everything, we can choose our beliefs.I have observed in my life that things that happen to me are only ten percent of what really constitute life, the rest ninety percent is how I choose to experience it. And let me emphasize that, the way we experience things is a choice that we consciously (or unconsciously) make.

So life is unfair, if you allow it to be. And you are free to choose whether or not your are going to allow. You may have gone through situations when everything was out of the tune with justice and fairness. You might, quite a many times, have experienced failure, when you were sure as hell that you deserved success. Many a times, you might have suffered losses of meaningful relationships, because of unintentional, petty mistakes. Despite all of it, life isn’t unfair if you so choose to think. Ultimately, it boils down to your thoughts, to your beliefs, and what you believe is true and even if it is not at the outset, your realities will manifest itself to be in congruent with your belief. What does it mean? When you believe life to be fair, you might see the reasons you failed in a different light, and even though you were not responsible, you might be able to accept them, and separate yourself from the guilt and feeling of it. The realities are different now, as you are no more the victim of things you never did, no more frustrated about your failure. The realities have manifested itself and is in tune with your belief. This is how it works.

Hope it helps,

Florin